On YourPerson, we've created a secure environment where verified users can connect for serious relationships.
YourPerson is designed with your safety in mind. We take a fundamentally different approach from casual dating platforms:
Every person on our platform undergoes a thorough verification process. We verify identity documents and use selfie verification to ensure users are exactly who they claim to be.
Our platform uses a message request system rather than mutual likes or swiping. This allows for direct communication between interested parties while still giving recipients control over who can message them.
Your conversations are private—even our admins cannot see or read your messages. You control what information you share and with whom.
While our verification process minimizes bad actors, you can still block and report users who don't adhere to our community standards focused on respectful, serious relationship-seeking.
Find exactly who you're looking for with our comprehensive filtering system that allows you to search for compatible partners based on specific criteria important for long-term compatibility.
All verified members receive equal treatment on our platform. There are no boosted profiles or paid visibility advantages—everyone has the same opportunity to connect.
While our platform ensures all users are verified, we recommend these guidelines when meeting potential partners.
Serious relationships develop over time. Use our messaging system to have meaningful conversations before meeting in person. Discuss values, goals, and expectations to ensure compatibility.
While all our users are identity-verified, consider video chatting before meeting to further confirm compatibility and build comfort. This extra step helps ensure you're investing time in someone who's genuinely interested.
For your first few meetings, choose public locations like restaurants, cafés, or cultural venues. This creates a comfortable environment to focus on learning more about each other in a safe setting.
When meeting someone, let a trusted friend or family member know your plans, including who you're meeting, when, and where. Consider using a location-sharing app during your date for added security.
If something doesn't feel right, listen to your intuition. It's okay to end a date early or decline future meetings if you're uncomfortable, even if the person is verified. Respect for boundaries is fundamental in serious relationships.
Remember, while YourPerson ensures all users are verified and genuine, your personal safety remains your responsibility when meeting offline. Always exercise good judgment and take proper precautions.
If you encounter behavior that violates our community guidelines—such as users seeking casual encounters or being disrespectful—please report it immediately. We take all reports seriously to maintain our focus on serious relationships.